So I was at work the other day listening the conversations of my messy co-workers. The topic of the day was the usual, relationships. One of my female co-workers stated that she did not want a cell phone because she did not want her husband checking up on her. The first question that came to mind was... What do you mean checking up? Do you mean that you do not want him calling to check on you? Do you mean that you dont want him to call and say baby how you doing? These two things are fine in marriage. I want my wife to call me and say what you doing baby, or how is your day? Sometimes I need to hear her voice to get me through a day of battling these white folks(no pun intended white people). No if he is calling to see where you at, and where you going because of trust issues, then there is a problem. Now I asked the question, did you give him a reason not to trust, and she said yes. Read More!